Setting unrealistic goals only hurts your self-confidence.
You’re in a constant state of purgatory where “one day” you’ll be good enough.
Instead of telling me why you aren’t ready to be photographed right now (ie: too fat, too thin, too busy, too this, too that, etc), I’d love to know why you ARE ready to be photographed right now.
I like to ask this question, and I’ve kept a lot of the answers I’ve received. Here are a few:
"I am a new mom and turning 40 soon. I'd love to celebrate this big milestone birthday and all the changes with it in style” - Gabriela
"Wishing to have a great statement of myself as the woman I have worked hard to be" - Tania
"I've embraced my natural silvering hair. I'd love to see your camera's vision - of me!" - Sharon
"I'd Like to feel sexy again" - Michelle